People get easily intimidated when faced with Truths of Divine Order and Cosmic Laws. They transfer that intimidation into feeling threatened by the person delivering it, especially when stated strong and firm, and especially when delivered by a Woman. It’s a mistake to think that Women of any stature in ancient days were in any […]
The operating Dr was the very soul of kindness and consideration. He even quoted, “First, do no harm” as he poised above my awkwardly positioned body with a needle full of numbing agent. And yet his task was dreadful to me. All his careful precision and determination to get good samples soothed me at some
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In creating a new focus for the next stage of my life, I’ve been called to collapse all other possibilities. And not just alternative ways to occupy my time in a potential future. It seems I’ve been creating a phantom timeline of “what can never be” which was fed by 45 years of longing for
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If we pay attention, we realize that our thoughts have voices that hopefully guide us, but often really just boss us around. What is true guidance, and what is just our fears? What is higher wisdom in our best interests, and what is warning and worry that actually keeps us locked in place? A big
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It was long past expiration date. Has something like this happened to you? {Please know that I’ll be gently describing my process of going from being deeply triggered into arriving at a new awareness of Who I Am Next. If being triggered is something you have difficulty navigating, then do be careful if you decide
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Can I just TALK with someone? Yes, you can. There have been several times in the past four decades when I really just needed to be able to Talk with someone about very real difficulties in my life. Edgy things. Things that were hard to make sense of, and no one wanted to believe. Inconvenient
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I’ve had some downright awful experiences with coaches over the years, which have imprinted me with knowing how NOT to show up as coach and mentor. One woman in particular helped me learn the hard way about integrity and abuse of power. I had invested in this very ‘high end’ coach for all the good
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I was so mad when my mother died. It didn’t have to be that way. And a very lot was left unfinished between us. I was only 19 and we were in the midst of working out an adult relationship with each other, one where she could see me for myself and the woman I